Andrew Midson

Ray's Passing

Sadly, Ray passed on Monday, the 16th of March.

The information that was provided was that he rang for the nurse due to shortness of breath, after a short time, he closed his eyes and went off.

His funeral will be held on the 24th of March and will be greatly missed by everyone.

 

He would be proud of our efforts to raise money in his memory and we are amazed by everyone's contributions.

I'm fundraising in memory of Raymond Gale

Rays Story...

On the 31st of August 2019, we were awoken to the news that something was not right with Ray.


Suspecting a stroke, an ambulance transported Ray to Wyong Hospital, where after undergoing a CT scan, a mass was detected on the brain. A MRI would be needed for more detail and care from a specialist hospital, so Ray was transferred to Royal North Shore Hospital that night.


On the 5th of September at North Shore Private, Ray underwent a craniotomy to remove the largest mass from his brain. Multiple masses were detected from the MRI.


The diagnosis...

Pathology determined that mass was a Glioblastoma. It is a primary tumour, with no cancer found elsewhere in the body.


Glioblastomas are aggressive, fast growing tumours. Long term survival rates are slim, with 50% of people diagnosed surviving less than 12-18 months, most passing away within 5 years. 


It is expected that the growth of the tumour was from only 6 months.

The treatment

Additionally to the craniotomy, Ray underwent 6 weeks of radiotherapy and chemotherapy. Shortly afterwards Ray was back in hospital with an infection and swelling on the brain.


Ray underwent a further 3 months out of his 6 month course of chemotherapy before swelling of the brain became uncontrolled and is now back in hospital.

Ray started to loose strength in his right side and on the 1st of March was having seizures approximately every 5 minutes for about 3 days, with one seizure lasting for about an hour. After changes in his brain activity was detected, the tough decision was made to place Ray under palliative care.


Side effects

From day one, Ray lost peripheral vision in his right eye. This greatly hindered mobility and balance.

With the tumour being located primarily in his speech centre, Ray struggled finding the right words, occasionally being unable to effectively communicate at all. 

Ray lost bladder function, although now suspected to be a result of a previous operation to remove a kidney stone. This resulted in regular urinary tract infections.

With swelling, Rays balance slowly deteriorated, unable to move around independently.

This all contributed to a depressed mood, being trapped in your own body, unable to function normally.

I am shaving my hair and beard for ACRF because I believe that a world without cancer is possible.

On the 29th of March, I will shave my hair and beard for ACRF.

Although Rays time is now limited, there is chance for so many others, through research and leaning about cancer. Earnt detection and more effective treatment for others could be just around the corner.

ACRF invests in the brightest minds and boldest ideas in cancer research.

Help me to be bold too and donate today to Outsmart Cancer.

Thank you for your support.

My Achievements

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Reached Goal!

Raised $100

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50% of goal

Thank you to my Sponsors

$208.80

Kristy-lee Dawson

$156.60

Amanda Williams

Hearing of Rays stuggle and the effect this would of had on his family is heartbreaking. Sending my love and positive thoughts to them. Thankyou for providing an opportunity to give to this cause, were with u drew Amanda and chelcee

$130.50

Adrichem Family

In memory of Ray, we will always remember your kindness, laughter and great taste in music xo

$104.40

Bernadette Ahling

$57.42

Deanna Midson

💜

$52.20

Karlene Lawlor

Great thing your doing Andrew in honor of a great man.your father in law would be so proud. They always say girl marry a man like there dad's. And the man you are is just like Ray, KIND/Generous/Loving and a family man. Ill share the word let reach your goal.

$52.20

Lucia Beasley

What a lovely thing you are doing 🙂

$52.20

Bethany Midson

$50

Nigel Williams

$50

Emma J Lewis

$50

Ash Johnston

$41.76

Matthew Caple

Great cause, well done mate

$25

Heather Pereira

$20.88

Michael Forster